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Slow Blinks How Cats Show They're Comfortable

 As an experienced cat lover, one thing I can tell you for certain is that cats have a language of their own. It is an exciting mix of physical, verbal, and visual signs, providing insights into their mindset and feelings. If you have ever wondered what a slow blink from your furry friend means, this blog is for you!

  Cats are notorious for their seeming indifference and independent attitude. Unlike dogs, cats rarely show direct affection, making it challenging for their owners to gauge their emotions. However, this doesn't mean they aren't capable of showing love and comfort. In fact, they have an exceptionally cute and subtle way of communicating their comfort level and trust – the slow blink. Yes, you read that correctly. When your feline companion gazes at you lovingly and delivers a measured, slow blink, it is their unique way of saying, I trust you, or I am comfortable with you. Also known as a 'kitty kiss,' this gentle, prolonged eye blink from a cat towards a human or another cat is one of the ultimate signs of trust and affection in the feline world. The slow blink might look simple, but it has a profound meaning. It has to do with a cat's predatory instinct. In the wild, a cat exposing their eyes, thus lowering their defenses for an extended period, signals their vulnerability. Therefore, a slow blink at a human or another cat is a high level of trust – it's a sign that they feel utterly secure and unthreatened. There are many instances when you may observe your cat giving you the 'kitty kiss.' It may happen when they are curled up on your lap enjoying a good pet, or when you are sharing a calm, quiet moment together. Recognizing this cat behavior can take your bond to a new level. You can even return this sign of affection to communicate your trust and comfort in them. To give a 'kitty kiss' back, you simply have to meet their gaze and slowly close your eyes, hold for a moment, and then open them again. If you're lucky, your cat will acknowledge and reciprocate with another slow blink. It's a unique and endearing form of communication that truly emphasizes the special bond between cats and their owners. However, as with any aspect of pet behavior, there are other circumstances to consider when interpreting these blinks. Always pay attention to the broader context of your cat's actions and behaviors, and when in doubt, consult with a trusted vet or a feline behavior expert. Remember, understanding and respecting your feline companion's comfort levels is key to fostering a loving and trusting relationship. The next time your cat blinks at you slowly, make sure to appreciate this special display of trust and affection. Happy kitty kissing!

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